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Rabbi Forsythe is contacted
frequently with questions about his subject areas, so that members of the Jewish public
can seek advice or better understand, and apply to "real life," the relevant
laws, hashkofos (Torah views) and principles.
PLEASE READ COMPLETELY. COMMUNICATIONS MUST SATISFY ALL CRITERIA. FORM MUST
BE COMPLETELY FILLED-OUT AND NOT BE ANONYMOUS (NOR HAVE A CONTRIVED NAME;
examples of some which have been received: Plony Almony, Lady X, Mr. Torah, etc.)
OR YOUR EMAIL WILL NOT BE CONSIDERED.
All
sincere communications are warmly encouraged. Please do not write the same letter twice
(some people have been sending the same communication to both "Ask Your
Question" and "Contact"). ONLY WRITE ONCE and use the one choice
("Ask" OR "Contact") that is MOST APPROPRIATELY SUITED to the nature
of your communication. Do not ever send
attachments.
Make sure that you give a VALID AND VERIFIED email address.
When an incorrect email address is furnished, reply to you is not possible. Your email
address for reply from either "Ask" or "Contact" must be precise for
you to receive a response.
Vague or general questions cannot be answered. Questions
must be clear and specific. Acceptance is solely subject to Rabbi Forsythe's discretion.
No academic nor comparative religion questions will be accepted. Only practical material,
derived from or consistent with Jewish instruction, will be accepted. Sincere,
respectful and relevant communications are warmly encouraged. However, please keep to the
basic purpose of the site. The ASK YOUR QUESTION feature of Rabbi Forsythe's website is
for people to ask questions to improve their lives, marriages, families, relationships,
mate-seeking efforts, inner growth and handling of inner struggles; through Rabbi
Forsythe's Torah and psychological research, knowledge, insight and experience. The
CONTACT RABBI FORSYTHE feature is to enable people to communicate with Rabbi Forsythe to
spread Torah or to help improve people's lives on a large scale through his professional
work and expertise, such as private counseling, public speaking and workshops, or to write for publication. Please understand that communications for
involvement in your personal projects (such as making a shiduch, asking Rabbi Forsythe to
volunteer to design your school curriculum, helping you do a report or survey, asking in general out of curiosity or for
an opinion, telling or asking for analysis of lengthy or complex situations,
receiving your resume or request to help get
you a job, or to get you in to a school or kollel) can not be accepted.
This ASK YOUR QUESTION feature is ONLY intended to answer concise,
to-the-point concrete questions applicable to real life, particularly relating to the
subject matters of this site; so that sincere people can reach their potential;
spiritually grow; live a righteous, civil, decent, fulfilling, peaceful and
moral life; and loyally serve G-d. Theoretical, abstract, intimate, immodest or
political topics; sending poetry, advertisements or jokes; any attempt at
debating; scholastically asking the meaning of texts, laws or teachings without a
practical "bottom line" purpose, or without understanding the original Hebrew
or Aramaic language and original background of the material [particularly
because translations usually distort, or diminish from, the full or accurate
intended meaning and context of the original, particularly as quotes furnished
often are only segments of fuller passages or have limited or specific
applications, so questions based on translations and/or segments taken out of context,
are often invalid]; and other deviations from the goals of this feature are also
unacceptable. Years of experience have shown how this feature can be abused
or misused. Please be considerate of Rabbi Forsythe's time and be thoughtful
about his specific purpose.
You are cordially invited to ask Rabbi
Forsythe your questions; whether for yourself or someone you know; on such subjects as:
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Building, Improving or Maintaining a
Successful, Happy and Peaceful Marriage |
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Finding, Selecting or Preparing for your Zivug
(Mate) |
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Human Relations |
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Communicating |
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Personal Growth and Mussar |
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Nezikin (Laws Of Preventing and Compensating
For Harm or Damage to a person, his feelings, his rights or his property) |
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Midos (Character Traits and Personality
Development) |
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Self-Image |
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Inner Happiness |
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Interpersonal Mitzvos or Conduct (e.g. laws of
Peace, Chesed/Kindness, Honest Business, Resolving or Staying Out Of Machlokess/Arguments,
Living With Neighbors, etc.) |
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Laws and Views of Work, Business and
Materialism |
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Derech Eretz (Civil, Thoughtful, Polite
Conduct) |
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Hashkofa (Torah views) |
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Prayer |
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Suffering |
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Wisdom from Talmudic and Post-Talmudic Sages
For Successful Life |
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Managing Anger In Yourself Or Someone You Deal
With |
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Tshuva (repentence, spiritual return) |
Rabbi Forsythe expects to answer as
many questions as possible; in as timely, respectful and sensitive a manner as
circumstances permit. The intent of "Ask The Rabbi" is to provide an opportunity
for those with sincere questions (about any of Rabbi Forsythe's subject areas) to obtain
meaningful help.
In the particular case of people prone to
disputes (such as married or "serious" couples, neighbors or business
associates, etc.), please keep in mind one of Rabbi Forsythe's expressions: "We don't
have fights, we have shaalos!" By asking a rabbi questions, fighting becomes
obsolete, if both parties agree in advance that they are loyal to the will of Hashem and
to accept that rabbi's reply. Pirkei Avos tells us that everything is in the Torah. By
referring questions to the Torah, we know the right thing to do; and there is nothing for
mature, objective, honorable and Torah-loyal people to ever fight about.
All questions must have your name, address
and other requested information in order to be accepted. However, if you do not want
your name published on this site, you may request that it be withheld. We ask that
you please do not ever send attachments with your e-mail nor ever send anonymous
communications.
Questions will be rejected if there is an
attachment, if the question is not suitable to Rabbi Forsythe, if the English is unclear,
etc.
Please do NOT send email on Fridays after
mid-morning, Saturdays, all major Jewish holidays, Chol HoMoed - the intermediate days of
Passover and Sukkos, Purim, Tisha B'Av nor on the two days before Passover and before
Sukkos. Thank you.
Communications that are lengthy, complex, require research, contain multiple
questions or would otherwise be time-consuming are discouraged; Rabbi Forsythe
might reject them or, if he accepts them, answering might be delayed or
limited according to his workload, schedule, availability, etc. Please keep your
writing concise, practical and to-the-point.
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