Introduction:
In the previous letter, we discussed the deeper and loving meaning of the following verse:
“But the midwives revered God, and they did not do as the king of Egypt commanded them; moreover, they kept the boys alive.” (Exodus 1:17)
“They kept the boys alive” – They not only refused to kill the boys, they also nourished them. (Explanation of Rashi)
The spiritual cause of their courageous and loving devotion is expressed in the following words: “The midwives revered God.” The Midrash (Exodus Rabbah 1:15) praises the midwives for their spiritual idealism, and it applies the following quote to them: A woman who revers Hashem, she shall be praised (Proverbs 31:30).
We also discussed the concept of yiras Hashem – the reverence for the Compassionate and Life-Giving One. As we learned, there is a reverence for Hashem that comes from love, and we cited the following definition of a person who has yiras Hashem. This definition is found in “Sefer Chassidim” (Section 12):
“One who fears that one will not be whole in the love of the Creator, as it is said, Be whole with Hashem your God (Deuteronomy 13:18).
This definition helped us to understand the yiras Hashem of the Hebrew midwives. They not only refused to kill the boys; they also “kept the boys alive.” The midwives feared that they would not be whole in their loving service of Hashem if their defiance was limited to disobeying the order to kill the babies; thus, they also nurtured them.
In the spirit of the above teachings, I will share with you a story of a 20th century heroine, Sarah Lederman (Sarah bas Avigdor). Her yahrtzeit is the 18th of Teves. Most of the information is from the book, These Children are Mine, which was written by her son, Dov Lederman.
Dear Friends,
During the late
1930’s, Sarah
Lederman, her
husband, and her two
young children were
living in Warsaw,
Poland. They were a
Torah-observant
family. After
Germany invaded
Poland, the Germans
began to gather the
Jews and put them in
ghettoes. This
development caused
Sarah to become
separated from her
husband, but she
somehow managed to
escape Warsaw with
her two young
children, Dov and
Leah, and cross the
border into the
Soviet Union. The
Soviet Union put her
and her children,
along with other
Jewish refugees, in
a slave labor camp,
and even the
children were forced
to do hard work all
day. It was a very
difficult and
dangerous period,
but she managed to
keep her children
alive – both
physically and
spiritually. When
the war was over,
she and her children
returned to Poland,
and she discovered
that her husband was
in the Land of
Israel.
At this stage of her
life, she could have
attempted to leave
Poland; however, her
loving yiras
Hashem inspired
her to achieve a
higher level of
service. She decided
to remain in Poland
for a period and
devote her energy to
the Jewish orphans
who had eluded the
German extermination
by living as
non-Jews in Catholic
orphanages or as
part of Catholic
families. When the
war ended, most of
these children’s
custodians balked at
returning them to
surviving family
members or to Jewish
institutions. One
can imagine the
great anguish of the
surviving relatives
and other concerned
Jews when the
Catholic foster
parents or
orphanages refused
to allow these
children to return
to their people.
Sarah Lederman threw
herself into the
work of rescuing
these children
through various
means and returning
them to their
people. Until she
was able to smuggle
them out of Poland,
she took care of the
children in a
Jewish orphanage,
and with love,
gentle patience, and
tenderness, she
helped them to
rediscover their
Jewish identity and
heritage. She and a
group of the
children, including
her own two
children, were in a
transport that hoped
to reach the Land of
Israel. At the
border of
Czechoslovakia,
however, she was
arrested by the
Polish authorities
and imprisoned, but
the children,
including her own
two children,
managed to safely
cross the border.
Sarah Lederman was
greatly inspired by
her Chassidic
father, a follower
of the Rebbe of
Radzin. He was
highly regarded by
the Rebbe, who would
spend hours
discussing matters
of importance with
him whenever the
Rebbe visited
Warsaw. Her father’s
Torah values had an
enormous impact on
Sarah, especially
his honesty in
business, and his
concern for the poor
and the downtrodden.
The following story
can serve as an
example:
Her father
manufactured cloth
ribbons; however,
the demands for his
merchandise were not
too steady, and
there were times
when there were no
orders at all.
During such slow
periods, his shop,
like others in the
trade, remained
idle. It was then
common practice for
factories and firms
to employ workers
only so long as the
demand lasted and
then to fire them
when the last order
had been filled. In
those times, when
unemployment
compensation was
non-existent, this
was tantamount to
reducing the workers
to begging for their
bread, if they did
not want to die of
starvation. Her
father would have
none of this. Any
worker that he hired
was told that the
wages in this
workshop were
slightly below the
standard wage for
the trade, but once
accepted, the
employee would be
assured of a salary
for the entire year,
irrespective of the
number of days he
would actually work.
After she got
married and had two
children, Sarah
Lederman hired as a
governess for her
children a young
Jewish woman named
Rachelka, who was a
member of the
outlawed Communist
party. Rachelka’s
boyfriend was also a
Communist, and he
was put in his
prison because of
his illegal
political
activities. Sarah
helped her governess
send her boyfriend
food and books when
he was in prison.
Sarah’s son, Dov
Lederman, writes the
following about his
mother’s
relationship with
Rachelka:
”Rachelka would
often tell Mother
that judging from
the way she treated
those in her employ,
she would have made
a good Communist.
For her part, Mother
was also quite
unhappy about the
prevalent treatment
of the working
class, who toiled
long hours for low
pay, at times under
unhealthy and even
dangerous
conditions. She even
sympathized with the
fiery proclamations
about the need for
change, but being
deeply religious,
she rejected
Communism, with its
materialistic-atheistic
notions of Utopia.”
(These Children are
Mine)
Rachelka later
married her
boyfriend who became
a high-ranking
official in the
Polish government
after the Communists
took over Poland. It
was Rachelka who
persuaded her
husband to help
Sarah Lederman leave
Poland and settle in
Israel, where she
was able to rejoin
her two children,
along with many of
the children that
she had rescued from
Catholic homes and
orphanages.
Dov Lederman writes
that his mother
tried her best to
keep tabs on the
children she had
shepherded through
the difficult
transition from
wartime to normal
life – as normal as
their lives could
ever be. They would
often stop by the
bakery where she
worked for a chat.
These visits
afforded both
parties great
happiness and
satisfaction. And he
adds: “To them,
Mother was family,
and over the ensuing
decades she was the
honored participant
at many happy
occasions celebrated
by her former
charges” (Ibid).
Sarah Lederman is therefore worthy of the following tribute:
“A woman who reveres Hashem, she shall be praised. Give her the fruits of her hands; and let her be praised in the gates by her very own deeds” (Proverbs 31:31).
Shalom,
Yosef Ben Shlomo
Hakohen (See below)
Related Comments:
1. Sarah’s son, Dov
Lederman, wrote a
book about his
mother’s life
titled, “These
Children are Mine” (Feldheim
Publishers). It
gives a detailed
account of how she
and her two children
escaped Poland and
how they managed to
survive in Russia.
The book also
includes the amazing
stories of how she
managed to return
hundreds of Jewish
orphans to their
people. With
remarkable
dedication to
historical accuracy,
this book provides a
well-researched
account about
aspects of Jewish
life in pre-war
Poland, the
suffering of Jewish
refugees in Russia,
and the difficult
and dangerous life
of Jews in post-war
Poland. For
information about
the book, visit:
www.feldheim.com
2. Rebbitzen Leah Feldman, the wife of my rebbe, Rav Aharon Feldman, is the daughter of Sarah Lederman. I heard from Rebbitzen Feldman the following story: An older girl that her mother had rescued arrived in Israel, but she became depressed and would not eat. The authorities wanted to send her to a psychologist, but her mother had a different strategy. She understood the sense of loss and loneliness that was causing the girl pain. She therefore took the girl into her home and gave her tender loving care – making sure to give her many hugs and kisses before the girl went to sleep. She began feeding the girl and managed to persuade her to begin eating again. She later helped the girl to get married, and today the girl she rescued is a proud grandmother of children who are living a Torah life in the Land of Israel.
3. Sarah Lederman passed away at the age of 105. A day after Sarah Lederman passed away in the hospital in Bnei Brak, her great great-grandson was born in the same hospital.
Sarah’s many
grandchildren,
great-grandchildren,
and great
great-grandchildren
are living a Torah
life in the Land of
Israel. Rebbitzen
Feldman mentioned to
me that her mother’s
many descendants can
no longer fit into a
single room; thus,
when there is a
family reunion, they
need a hall.