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Prepared by Rabbi N. Slifkin of Kollel Iyun Hadaf, Yerushalayim Rosh Kollel: Rabbi Mordecai Kornfeld
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Nedarim 15
NEDARIM 14 & 15 - The Sichel family of Baltimore Maryland has dedicated two
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1) RISKING BREAKING CONDITIONS (Cont.)
(a) Question: We can deduce a contradiction to R. Yehudah from our
Mishnah:
1. The Mishnah's statement that a Konam on sleeping is binding
can't be taken at face value, as the Beraisa states that a
Neder cannot take effect on something intangible, so it must
mean that he made a Konam on his eyes from sleeping.
2. It can't mean that he did so without a time limit, meaning
that he would eventually transgress Bal Yachel, as R.
Yochanan said that if a person swears to abstain from sleep
for three days, we give him Malkus and he can sleep
immediately!
3. So maybe it means that he said Konam on his eyes from
sleeping tomorrow if he sleeps today.
4. But we said that people are careful about transgressing the
prohibition (and there is no need from prohibiting him from
sleeping today)!
5. So it must mean that he said Konam on his eyes from sleeping
today if he sleep tomorrow; and if he didn't sleep today,
there is no problem of Bal Yachel if he sleeps tomorrow.
6. So it must mean that he is allowed to sleep today (and
thereby risk Bal Yachel), which contradicts R. Yehudah!?
(b) Answer: The Mishnah means that if he did sleep, he risks Bal
Yachel (but not that he may sleep).
(c) Alternate answer (Ravina): The Mishnah really means that he said
Konam on sleeping, not on his eyes, and the Bal Yachel is only
D'Rabbanan.
1. Question: Can there be Bal Yachel D'Rabbanan?
2. Answer: Yes, as we find in a Beraisa that one cannot permit
things that people have taken the custom of prohibiting.
(d) Question: We can deduce a contradiction to R. Yehudah:
1. (Mishnah) If a man prohibits his wife from benefiting from
him until Pesach if she goes to her father's house before
Sukkos, then if she went before Pesach, she is prohibited
from benefiting until Pesach.
2. We can deduce that if she didn't go, she may benefit from
him (even though she may yet go before Sukkos), which
contradicts R. Yehudah!?
(e) Answer: It means that if she went, she is prohibited and
punishable with Malkus, otherwise she is merely prohibited.
(f) Question: The Mishnah continues that if she went after Pesach,
there is Bal Yachel.
1. That is only possible if she did benefit from her husband
before Pesach.
2. We see that is permitted for her to benefit before Pesach
and risk Bal Yachel, which contradicts R. Yehudah!?
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(g) Answer: It does not mean that she may do so; it means that if she
did do so, she risks Bal Yachel.
(h) Question: We can deduce a contradiction to R. Yehudah:
1. (Mishnah) If a man prohibits his wife from benefiting from
him until Sukkos if she goes to her father's house before
Pesach, then if she went before Pesach, she is prohibited
from benefiting until Sukkos; she may go after Pesach.
2. We can deduce that if she didn't go, she may benefit from
him (even though she may yet go before Pesach), which
contradicts R. Yehudah!?
(i) Answer: It means that if she went, she is prohibited and
punishable with Malkus, otherwise she is merely prohibited.
(j) Question: We can deduce a contradiction to R. Yehudah:
1. (Tosefta) If someone prohibits a loaf of bread on himself
today if he goes to a certain place tomorrow, then if he ate
it, he is prohibited from going there tomorrow.
2. We see that he may put himself in the situation of risking
Bal Yachel!?
(k) Answer: It doesn't say that he may eat it; it says "if he ate
it."
(l) Question: It continues that if he went then he transgresses Bal
Yachel, but it doesn't say that he may go (which would mean that
since he was prohibited from eating the bread on the previous
day, there is no risk of Bal Yachel), so we see that he is
allowed to risk Bal Yachel!?
(m) Answer: It could equally have stated that he may go; it used the
past tense to match the statement concerning him having eaten.
2) VOWING TO ABSTAIN FROM MARITAL RELATIONS
(a) The Mishnah said that if someone says Konam on having relations
with his wife, it is subject to Bal Yachel.
(b) Question: Surely he has a Torah obligation for this (and the
Neder should not take effect)?
(c) Answer: He can circumvent this by prohibiting the pleasure of
relations.
1. (R. Kahana) If a woman prohibits her husband from having
relations with her, she is forced into her, as she has an
obligation to him.
2. But if she prohibits the pleasure of it on herself,
relations are prohibited, as we don't force someone to
contravene a prohibition.
3) MISHNAH: SHEVUOS ON ACTIONS ETC.
(a) If someone says Shevuah that he will not sleep, speak, or walk,
it is binding.
(b) If he said "Korban, I am not eating of yours," "This Korban, that
I am eating of yours," or "Not Korban, I am not eating of yours,"
it is permitted.
4) WHO THE MISHNAH IS FOLLOWING
(a) The Mishnah must be following R. Meir, because R. Yehudah would
not distinguish between whether he said "Korban" or "The Korban."
(b) The latter part states that if he said "LeKorban, I am not eating
of yours" it is permitted.
(c) Question: The Mishnah previously stated that if he says
"LeKorban, I am not eating of yours," R. Meir holds that it is
binding, and R. Aba explained that it is because he means, "You
are as a Korban, and therefore I am not eating of yours"!?
(d) Answer: We can interpret it thus when he said "La"; but in the
Beraisa he said "Le-", which means "This is not as Korban - that
which I am not eating." (It is therefore permitted because R.
Meir does not deduce the positive corollary.)
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