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Nedarim, 76
1) REFUTING THE VIEW OF REBBI ELIEZER
QUESTION: Rebbi Eliezer states that a husband may annul the Nedarim of his
wife even before she makes them. The Gemara questions how such a Hafarah
works: does it prevent the Neder from taking effect in the first place, or
does it immediately annul the Neder after the Neder takes effect for one
moment?
The Gemara cites a Beraisa that seems to provide conflicting evidence. In the
Reisha of the Beraisa, the Chachamim attempt to disprove Rebbi Eliezer from
the case of "Mikvah": even though a Mikvah can be Metaher something that is
Tamei, it cannot prevent something from becoming Tamei in the future. So,
too, assert the Chachamim, even though a husband can annul his wife's Nedarim
when they exist, he cannot annul them before they are made to prevent them
from taking effect. We can infer from the Chachamim's argument against Rebbi
Eliezer that Rebbi Eliezer himself holds that when the husband annuls his
wife's Nedarim before they are made, his Hafarah prevents the Nedarim from
taking effect at all.
In the Seifa of the Beraisa, however, the Chachamim present a different
argument against Rebbi Eliezer from the case of "Kli": even though one can be
Tovel a Kli that is Tamei in order to make it Tahor, one cannot be Tovel a
Kli while it is Tahor so that when it becomes Tamei it will immediately
become Tahor. So, too, assert the Chachamim, even though a husband can annul
his wife's Nedarim with Hafarah once they exist, he cannot do Hafarah before
they exist in order to annul them immediately once they take effect. This
implies that according to Rebbi Eliezer, when they husband annuls his wife's
Nedarim before they are made, the Nedarim do take effect for one moment, but
the Hafarah revokes them immediately.
The Gemara resolves the contradiction by saying that the Chachamim themselves
are not sure what Rebbi Eliezer holds, and that is why they brought two
different arguments against his logic. If he holds that the Neder does not
take effect in the first place, then they refute his view from the case of
"Mikvah." If he means that the Neder takes effect but is immediately revoked,
then they refute his view from the case of "Kli."
Why, though, do the Chachamim phrase each argument differently? They should
prove both of their points from the case of "Mikvah" no matter what Rebbi
Eliezer holds! They should ask that even though a Mikvah is Metaher something
that is Tamei, nevertheless it cannot prevent something from becoming Tamei
(refuting Rebbi Eliezer's opinion regarding preemptive Hafarah if he holds
that the Hafarah prevents the wife's Neder from taking effect at all), nor
can a Mikvah make something that is presently Tahor become Tahor as soon as
it becomes Tamei (refuting Rebbi Eliezer's opinion if he holds that the
Hafarah annuls the wife's Neder only the moment after it takes effect)!
Alternatively, they should prove both points from the case of "Kli": one
cannot be Tovel a Kli that is Tahor so that it never becomes Tamei, nor can
one be Tovel a Kli that is Tahor so that when it becomes Tamei, it will
become Tahor right away! The Chachamim do not have to present two different
cases in order to prove their points against Rebbi Eliezer, even though they
are in doubt about his opinion; they could just present a single case that
would suffice to reject Rebbi Eliezer's opinion no matter what he holds!
ANSWERS:
(a) The ROSH and TOSFOS ask this question, why do the Chachamim bring two
different cases for proofs against Rebbi Eliezer. They answer that according
to the Girsa of the Gemara (see RAN) that says that the Chachamim support
their first proof (from "Mikvah") by mentioning a Kal v'Chomer from the
Halachah that something that a person swallows does not become Tamei (the
case of "Belu'ah"), their argument can only refute Rebbi Eliezer if he holds
that the wife's Neder does not take effect at all. It is clear that the
Chachamim could not bring that same proof if Rebbi Eliezer holds that the
wife's Neder takes effect and becomes annulled immediately thereafter.
According to this Girsa, the Chachamim say that we find that if a person
swallows an object, the object cannot become Tamei, but if he swallows an
object that is Tamei, it does *not* become Tahor, and yet a Mikvah -- which
*does* make an object that is Tamei become Tahor -- does *not* prevent
objects from becoming Tamei. (The Chachamim present their argument from the
perspective of the Mikvah, rather than from the perspective of the Kli, in
order to have a case that parallels the way that a person's body prevents an
object from becoming Tamei when it is inside of him. There is no particular
act that puts it inside of him which keeps it from becoming Tamei. Rather, it
is just the person's body that surrounds it that keeps the item from becoming
Tamei. This is similar to the way that a Mikvah works by surrounding the item
with water, but which does not prevent a Kli from becoming Tamei if the Kli
touches a Neveilah while it is in the Mikvah.) If Rebbi Eliezer holds that
the Neder takes effect and then becomes annulled, then this argument does
*not* refute Rebbi Eliezer. That is why the Chachamim must bring another
proof from the case of being Tovel a Kli in a Mikvah (without the Kal
v'Chomer from swallowed food).
According to this answer, why does the Beraisa not bring the proof from "Kli"
to disprove Rebbi Eliezer's logic even if he holds that the Neder does *not*
take effect? The answer is that it seems that the Chachamim want to
strengthen their proof by bringing the added Kal v'Chomer from "Belu'ah" (the
case of swallowing food) to refute Rebbi Eliezer if he holds that the Neder
does not take effect. If he holds that the Neder does take effect, this added
proof is meaningless, and therefore they instead bring their proof just from
"Kli."
However, the ROSH and TOSFOS do not explain why the proof against Rebbi
Eliezer, if he holds that the Neder takes effect, must be from "Kli" -- the
Chachamim still could have disproved Rebbi Eliezer by mentioned that a Mikvah
which is Metaher what is now Tamei cannot be Metaher what will become Tamei,
making *Mikvah* the focus Mikvah and not *Kli*. The advantage of bringing
this proof from a case of "Mikvah" and not from "Kli" is that it would then
not be limited to the Tevilah of a Kli, but it would apply to a person as
well.
It seems that according to these Rishonim, its more appropriate to focus on
an *action* being done to cause Taharah (the act of being Tovel the Kli) than
to focus on the *object* that is bringing about the Taharah (the Mikvah),
because, in the Mishnah, there is no *object* that is annulling the Neder,
but it is merely the husband's *act* of Hafarah. Another reason why it is
preferable to ask from the act of Tevilah, as TOSFOS (DH Shema Minah Lo
Chayali) and the SHITAH MEKUBETZES point out, is that there is a Pircha, a
weakness, from the proof of Mikvah: a Mikvah has the weakness in that if it
does not have enough water it cannot be Metaher, and there is no parallel
weakness with Hafarah. That might be why the proof from the act of Tevilah is
stronger, since, when bringing the proof from the act of being Tovel a Kli,
we do not have to address the element of the Mikvah (and its weakness) as
part of the proof.
(Nevertheless, the Beraisa still could have left out the word "Kli" so that
the proof would have been from the act of Tevilah of either a Kli or a
person. This question is left unanswered. The Rishonim also leave unanswered
the first Girsa of the Ran that does not mention the Kal v'Chomer from
"Belu'ah," and thus the question remains, why do the Chachamim need to bring
two different cases to refute Rebbi Eliezer?)
(b) The PARASHAS NEDARIM suggests that the proof from "Mikvah" is from the
fact that a Kli or a person inside the Mikvah becomes Tamei if the Kli or
person touches a Neveilah. The Mikvah cannot prevent the Kli or person from
becoming Tamei. This cannot be used to disprove Rebbi Eliezer if he holds
that the Neder *does* take effect and then becomes annulled, becomes if a
person touches a Neveilah while he is inside the Mikvah, the Mikvah is indeed
Metaher him immediately after he becomes Tamei. That is why the Chachamim
need to bring another proof from the case of "Kli" -- if a person is Tovel
the Kli, it will not become Tahor immediately after touching Tum'ah once it
is removed from the Mikvah. This approach is similar to the answer of the
Rosh and Tosfos. This approach, too, does not answer why the Seifa (the
refutation of Rebbi Eliezer if he holds that the Neder takes effect) needs to
mention "Kli."
(c) The OR SAME'ACH (Hilchos Mikva'os 1:8) says that the proof from the Seifa
that the Neder should not become annulled as soon as it takes effect is a
weak proof. Perhaps the Hafarah works for a Neder after the Neder takes
effect because the husband has intention for the Hafarah to take effect on
the Neder that his wife makes only after she makes it. In contrast, when
someone is Tovel a Kli in a Mikvah, there is no reason to connect that
Tevilah to a Tum'ah that affects the Kli at a later time. That is why the
Chachamim were careful to bring their proof in the Seifa from the case of a
person who is Tovel a Kli with intention to make it Tahor when it later
becomes Tamei. The Kli that they are discussing is one that is a Sheni
l'Tum'ah (i.e. it became Tamei through Mashkin), which is only Tamei with
regard to Terumah, and the Mishnah in Chagigah (18b) says that when being
Tovel something that is Tamei for Terumah, one must have intention, Kavanah,
for the Tevilah to make it Tahor for Terumah. In the Reisha, though, they are
discussing Tevilah for the sake of using the Kli for Chulin, which works even
without Kavanah. (Even though it is possible for a person to be a Sheni
l'Tum'ah, such as by having Mayim She'uvim poured over him or be eating
something that is a Sheni l'Tum'ah (Shabbos 15a), nevertheless it is more
common for a Kli to be a Sheni l'Tum'ah. It is not clear, though, why the
Beraisa would have to mention a case of a Kli that is a Sheni l'Tum'ah. It
could mention a case of a Kli that is a *Rishon* l'Tum'ah which a person
simply wants to use for Terumah, in which case he also needs to have Kavanah
when is Tovel it. The Beraisa could have disproved Rebbi Eliezer from the
case of any Kli that one is being Tovel for Terumah, since it still needs
Kavanah.)
2) REMOVING TUM'AH BY PLANTING SEEDS
QUESTION: Rebbi Eliezer states that a husband may annul the Nedarim of his
wife even before she makes them. The Gemara questions how such a Hafarah
works: does it prevent the Neder from taking effect in the first place, or
does it immediately annul the Neder after the Neder takes effect for one
moment? The Gemara here attempts to prove that he holds that Hafarah prevents
the Neder from taking effect in the first place, from the way that Rebbi
Eliezer supports his logic from the case of seeds ("Zera'im") that are sown
in the ground. Rebbi Eliezer says that we know that the Torah says that seeds
become Tahor from Tum'ah only when they are planted, and yet everyone agrees
that once they have been planted, if Tum'ah then touches them they certainly
are Tahor. It must be, says that the Gemara, that just like the planting
prevents the seeds from becoming Tamei, the Hafarah prevents the Neder from
taking effect.
How does this show that Rebbi Eliezer holds that the Neder does not take
effect? Perhaps the Neder *does* take effect, and Hafarah removes it only
after it takes effect. In the case of planting seeds, when the seeds are
planted in the ground, perhaps they *can* become Tamei when a source of
Tum'ah touches them, but they become Tahor immediately afterwards! How do we
know that what is planted in the ground does not become Tamei in the first
place?
ANSWERS:
(a) The ROSH seems to learn that the proof is from the well-known Halachah
that a plant that is attached to the ground cannot become Tamei at all even
while a source of Tum'ah is touching it.
(b) The RAN, though, says that seeds in the ground certainly do not become
Tamei, because if they do become Tamei, there is nothing happening to them to
remove their Tum'ah.
What does the Ran mean? The Gemara is assuming that according to Rebbi
Eliezer, the husband's Hafarah that precedes the wife's Neder will cause the
Neder to be removed after it takes effect (because of the Kal v'Chomer). So,
too, when seeds are planted in the ground, they can become Tamei, but the
planting that was done earlier will make them become Tahor as soon as they
become Tamei!
1. The OR SAME'ACH (see previous Insight) explains that Hafarah can remove a
Neder that is made later because the husband *intends* for his Hafarah to
take effect on that Neder. The act of Hafarah is done with Kavanah. It is the
Kavanah which effects the annulment, and his intention can be applied to any
future Nedarim. In contrast, when a person plants seeds, the Taharah does not
come about through any Kavanah that the person has, but merely through the
fact that the seeds became attached to the ground. It is the act itself which
is Metaher, and not the Kavanah. Therefore, that act of attaching it to the
ground has no bearing on a Tum'ah that affects the seeds at a later time and
cannot remove it. (We could argue with this logic, saying that since the
planting accomplishes the attachment of the plant to the ground, anything
that happens while the plant is attached to the ground should still be
affected by that act of planting.)
2. The Ran might be proving his point from the *second time* that the plant
becomes Tamei, or from the case of a plant that was Tamei *at the time* it
was planted. If the act of planting makes a plant Tahor only *after* it
becomes Tamei, it should only be able to work *once* to be Metaher the plant
(either when it was planted while it was Tamei, or to be Metaher it the first
time that Tum'ah touches it). The Taharah effect of the act of planting
should be used up on the first Taharah, and yet we see that the plant becomes
Tahor no matter how many times Tum'ah touches it. It must be that the
planting prevents it from becoming Tamei in the first place. If so, it is not
acting against any particular Tum'ah, but rather it is changing the nature of
the plant and making it the type of object that cannot become Tamei (and that
is why it does not make a difference how many times it is touched by a source
of Tum'ah). (M. Kornfeld)
3. Perhaps the Ran means what the Rosh says. When the Ran says that there is
nothing to remove the Tum'ah, he means that there is nothing to remove the
Tum'ah from *another object* that is touching the plant while a Neveilah
touches the plant. (This explanation, though, requires emendation in the text
of the Ran.)
76b
3) REBBI ELIEZER'S "KAL V'CHOMER"
QUESTION: The Gemara concludes that the Chachamim agree, in principle, with
Rebbi Eliezer's Kal v'Chomer. The reason why they argue with his ruling and
say that the husband cannot annul his wife's Nedarim before she makes them is
because of the Derashah from the verse, "Ishah Yekimenu v'Ishah Yefeirenu"
(Bamidbar 30:14).
If the Chachamim agree with the Kal v'Chomer (wherever there is no
conflicting Derashah), then why do they not apply the Kal v'Chomer in the
case of a Mikvah and say that if a Mikvah can be Metaher something that is
Tamei, then certainly it can make something that is already Tahor become
Tahor when Tum'ah touches it?
The RAN answers that in that case, too, the Chachamim learn from a verse not
to make the Kal v'Chomer. The verse teaches that even a person who is inside
of a Mikvah can become Tamei if he touches a source of Tum'ah.
How can the Chachamim agree to the Kal v'Chomer of Rebbi Eliezer wherever
there is no conflicting verse? Moreover, how can Rebbi Eliezer himself defend
the Kal v'Chomer? In all cases where the Kal v'Chomer might apply, we should
simply learn from the verse regarding Mikvah not to apply the Kal v'Chomer!
The verse regarding Mikvah should be used as a Pircha for all cases where we
might want to apply the Kal v'Chomer! Since the verse teaches not to make
such a Kal v'Chomer in the case of Mikvah, when Rebbi Eliezer asserts that we
do make such a Kal v'Chomer in the case of Hafaras Nedarim, we should refute
his assertion by pointing out that the Torah teaches *not* to make such a Kal
v'Chomer in a similar case regarding Mikvah, where the Torah teaches that it
can make something Tahor but it cannot prevent an object from becoming Tamei.
(See MITZPEH EISAN and PORAS YOSEF who ask a similar question, but their
answers do not answer our question.)
ANSWERS:
(a) The SHITAH MEKUBETZES answers that the case of Mikvah is not a Pircha,
because in the case of Mikvah, the verse teaching not to apply the Kal
v'Chomer is a Gezeiras ha'Kasuv.
What does this mean? Why should the verse regarding Mikvah not be a Pircha
simply because it is a Gezeiras ha'Kasuv? On the contrary, it is a Gezeiras
ha'Kasuv telling us not to apply the Kal v'Chomer! Every Pircha on a Kal
v'Chomer is from a Gezeiras ha'Kasuv!
The Shitah Mekubetzes might mean that there are two types of Kal v'Chomer.
The first type is a Kal v'Chomer that is based purely on logic. The second
type is a Kal v'Chomer that is based on certain Kulos and Chumros (leniencies
and stringencies) that the Torah gives to a certain matter. This second type
of Kal v'Chomer is immediately rejected if we find another case where the
Torah applies the Kulos and Chumros differently without applying the Kal
v'Chomer. In contrast, a Kal v'Chomer based purely on logic (and especially
one based on logic as sound as that in our Gemara), cannot be rejected simply
because of a single exception that the Torah makes. Rather, we will say that
the Kal v'Chomer is the rule while the single, unique case in the Torah is
the exception.
(b) TOSFOS (76a, DH Shema Mina Lo Chayali) and the RITVA (cited by the SHITAH
MEKUBETZES) explain that the Kal v'Chomer of Rebbi Eliezer cannot be
disproved from the case of the Mikvah. The Mikvah has a weakness that does
not exist in the case of Hafaras Nedarim (or in the case of seeds that were
planted): the Mikvah is Metaher only when it contains the required minimum
amount of water. If it contains even one drop less than forty Se'ah, it
cannot be Metaher. This weakness of a Mikvah might be the reason why it
cannot prevent an object from becoming Tamei. In contrast, Hafaras Nedarim
(or planting seeds in the ground) does not have this weakness and therefore
it *can* prevent a Neder from ever taking effect (or planting the seeds can
prevent them from ever becoming Tamei while they are planted).
(c) The RAMBAM (Hilchos Avos ha'Tum'ah 6:16) writes that if a person touches
an Av ha'Tumah while in the Mikvah, he becomes Tamei, "and when he leaves the
Mikvah he becomes Tahor." The KESEF MISHNAH infers from the Rambam's words
that a Mikvah is Metaher a person who is Tamei at the moment that the person
*leaves* the Mikvah (and *being in* the Mikvah is not what is Metaher the
person). He explains that the Rambam seems to have understood this from the
Sifri that says a person can become Tamei while in a Mikvah by touching a
Neveilah.
This ruling of the Rambam answers our question on the Chachamim and on Rebbi
Eliezer. The Halachah that a person can become Tamei in a Mikvah does *not*
contradict the Kal v'Chomer (that if something is Metaher an item which is
Tamei, then certainly it should be Metaher an item which is presently Tahor
for when it later becomes Tamei), because going into (or being in) a Mikvah
does *not* make a person Tahor (only going out of it does), and thus there is
no Kal v'Chomer to say that going into a Mikvah should prevent him from
becoming Tamei.
However, why do we not apply the Kal v'Chomer with regard to *going out* of
the Mikvah? Since, according to the Rambam, going out of the Mikvah is
Metaher a person who is Tamei, then certainly it should prevent him from
becoming Tamei later!
The PARASHAS NEDARIM makes an important point about our Sugya that answers
this question. He explains that the Kal v'Chomer from the case of "Kli" (i.e.
if being Tovel a Kli that is Tamei makes it Tahor, then certainly one should
be able to be Tovel a Kli that is Tahor so that when it touches Tum'ah, it
will be Tahor) is *not* a valid Kal v'Chomer, because in the case of "Kli"
the act of Tevilah is already finished and nothing is left of the Tevilah
after the object is removed from the Mikvah. Hence, at that point, it can
become Tamei again.
In contrast, when Rebbi Eliezer makes his Kal v'Chomer from the case of
seeds, he does not say that even after the seeds are removed from the ground
they cannot become Tamei; they certainly can become Tamei at that point. It
is only while the act of planting still affects the seeds -- in that they are
still attached to the ground -- that the planting can prevent them from
becoming Tamei. The same is true for Nedarim. When the husband does Hafarah,
his Hafarah remains present throughout the rest of the day, like we learned
earlier (73a and Ran there) regarding a person who says, "I want this Hafarah
to take effect only after a certain amount of time," in which case the
Hafarah is able to take effect (see Insights there). The same applies to the
case of "Amah Ivriyah."
Hence, when the Kli is removed from the Mikvah, there is no reason why
Tevilah should prevent it from becoming Tamei in the future.
However, according to the Kesef Mishnah's interpretation of the Rambam, it
now becomes difficult to understand why the Chachamim ask a question on Rebbi
Eliezer from the case of "Mikvah" in the first place! The Kal v'Chomer should
not apply in the case of "Mikvah" at all, since it is not the immersing in
the Mikvah that is Metaher, but the exiting from the Mikvah that is Metaher!
It would seem, therefore, more probable that the Rambam does not mean, like
the Kesef Mishnah says, that only coming out of the Mikvah is Metaher.
Rather, the Rambam means that either going in *or* coming out can be Metaher,
excluding simply being in the Mikvah, which is not Metaher. This is because
one needs to perform an *act* to be Metaher (such as going in or coming out
of the Mikvah), and merely being in the Mikvah is not an act. Consequently,
if this is what the Rambam means, then the Chachamim *should* apply the Kal
v'Chomer to say that if the Tevilah is Metaher a person who is Tamei, then
the Mikvah should certainly prevent one from becoming Tamei while in the
Mikvah, and our question remains!
Therefore, we must rely on one of the previous approaches to answer our
question.
What, though, is the Rambam's source for his ruling (according to our
alternative explanation of the Rambam)? The source might be from our Sugya.
The PARASHAS NEDARIM's point leaves an important question unanswered. In the
Seifa of the Beraisa, the Chachamim ask that if Rebbi Eliezer holds that the
Neder takes effect first and then the Hafarah annuls it, then we can disprove
him from the case of "Kli," because when a Kli that is Tahor is immersed in a
Mikvah, the Mikvah, according to Rebbi Eliezer's reasoning, should be able to
be Metaher the Kli for when it becomes Tamei at a later time. The Chachamim's
question cannot be that the Kli should be Tahor if it becomes Tamei while
*in* the Mikvah and then it stops touching the source of the Tum'ah, because
certainly the Halachah is that it *does* become Tahor. The Chachamim must be
asking that if it becomes Tamei *after* leaving the Mikvah then it should
become Tahor again, but the Parashas Nedarim points out that this is not a
valid Kal v'Chomer because the Tevilah is no longer present after the Kli
leaves the Mikvah!
This question might have been the source for the Rambam's ruling. The Rambam
is answering this question by saying that when a Kli touches a Neveilah in
the Mikvah, it does *not* becomes Tahor as soon as it is no longer touching
the Neveilah, but rather when it rises out from the Mikvah! With that, the
Chachamim have an excellent question on Rebbi Eliezer -- if Tevilah is
Metaher the Kli when it comes in or goes out of the Mikvah, then while it is
in the Mikvah certainly it should become Tahor if it becomes Tamei and then
stops touching the Tum'ah! This, then, is the source for the Rambam that a
Kli, while it is in a Mikvah, will become Tamei and remain so until it
leaves.
However, none of the other Rishonim seem to accept this ruling of the Rambam.
They all assume that *being in* a Mikvah can make an object Tahor the moment
it stops touching the Neveilah. How, then, do they answer our question on the
Chachamim's argument against Rebbi Eliezer? Why, according to Rebbi Eliezer's
reasoning (the Kal v'Chomer), should a Kli become Tahor *after* leaving the
Mikvah because of the Tevilah, if the act of Tevilah is no longer present?
The answer might be that there is a difference between how the Kal v'Chomer
operates if Rebbi Eliezer holds that the Neder never takes effect, and how it
operates if Rebbi Eliezer holds that it does take effect but becomes annulled
immediately thereafter. If the Neder does not take effect at all, then the
Kal v'Chomer teaches that the same state that can remove Tum'ah or a Neder
can also *prevent* Tum'ah or a Neder from taking effect. The Kal v'Chomer
teaches us something about the *state* of the item. Hence, it is only
applicable when the item is still in that state (such as a Kli in the Mikvah,
or seeds planted in the ground).
However, if Rebbi Eliezer holds that the Neder does take effect and then
becomes annulled, then the Kal v'Chomer teaches us that an *act*, not a
*state*, which can cause a Taharah or Hafarah for something that is presently
Tamei can certainly cause Taharah or Hafarah for Tum'ah or a Neder that has
not yet come into existence! If it is the *act* which causes Taharah, then it
should be a one-time act, teaching that the Tevilah can cause Taharah once,
either for the object at present if it is Tamei now, or for the first time in
the future that it becomes Tamei. It should not make a difference whether the
Tevilah is still present and apparent on the object or not, since it is the
*act* of Tevilah serving as the Metaher, rather than the change in the state
of the object, and the act of Tevilah will be able to effect a Taharah at any
time, present or future.
4) THE "KULA" OF HAFARAS NEDARIM ON THE DAY THAT THE NEDER IS MADE
QUESTION: The Mishnah teaches that Hafaras Nedarim may be performed during
the entire day on which the husband hears the Neder, "both to be lenient and
to be stringent." The Mishnah explains that the Kula is that if the wife
makes a Neder (and her husband hears it) on Friday night, then the husband
may be Mefer it during that night and during the day of Shabbos. The Chumra
is that if she makes the Neder at the end of the day on Shabbos, he is only
able to be Mefer it until nightfall.
The Mishnah means to say that this is a Kula relative to the other opinion of
when a husband may be Mefer the Neder of his wife. That other opinion holds
that the husband has twenty-four hours from the time that he hears of the
Neder to be Mefer it, regardless of what time of day he heard it.
Why, though, is this considered a Kula compared to the other possibility,
that the husband has twenty-four hours to be Mefer? The Halachah that limits
Hafaras Nedarim to the end of the day will *always* be a *Chumra* when
compared to the opinion that says he has a full twenty-four hours!
Second, why does the Mishnah specifically mention a woman who makes a Neder
on *Friday night*? How is making the Neder on Shabbos relevant to the
Halachah that the Mishnah is teaching (the duration of time that the husband
has to be Mefer the Neder)?
ANSWERS:
(a) The RAN says that the word "l'Hakel" ("to be lenient") in the Mishnah is
Lav Davka, and it merely means that sometimes the husband has more time than
others to be Mefer the Neder. Similarly, the mention of Shabbos in the
Mishnah is not related to the Halachah of being Mefer until the end of the
day. It is mentioned only parenthetically to teach an unrelated Chidush, that
it is permitted to be Mefer a Neder on Shabbos even when it is not necessary
for the sake of Shabbos, as the Gemara concludes.
(b) The ROSH says that "l'Hakel" is Lav Davka, but the mention of Shabbos in
the Mishnah is intended to teach us that Hafaras Nedarim is practiced "like
the night of Shabbos precedes the day" (an expression found in Nidah 36b) --
it teaches that the day is considered to begin with the onset of night with
regard to Hafarah.
(c) The ROGATCHAVER GA'ON (Mahadura Tinyana p. 45a, see Ishim v'Shitos on the
Rogatchover, ch. 2:9) suggests that "l'Hakel" is written with specific
intent, but it does not refer to the case listed in the Mishnah. Rather, the
Yerushalmi (cited by the ROSH on 72a, DH v'Shama Ba'al) explains that time
during which the husband or father is not *able* to be Mefer is not counted
towards "Yom Sham'o" (see Insights to Nedarim 69:1:b). The Yerushalmi adds
that this Halachah is dependent on the argument between the Tana'im whether a
husband must be Mefer before sunset, i.e. "Yom Sham'o" or whether he has 24
hours to be Mefer, "me'Yom El Yom." If he must be Mefer on "Yom Sham'o" --
"his" day of hearing -- we only count time during which he actually was
*able* to be Mefer, i.e. he was not mute. If he is given 24 hours, he always
loses the ability to be Mefer after that amount of time passes, regardless of
whether he was able to use the time for Hafarah or not. This, then is the
"l'Hakel" of the opinion that limits the ability to be Mefer to "Yom Sham'o,"
as opposed to giving 24 hours to be Mefer.
(d) According to the conclusion of the Gemara (77a), It might be suggested
and the mention of "l'Hakel" and of Shabbos in the Mishnah are written
specifically, to teach a very important points. The Gemara says that it is
permitted to do Hafaras Nedarim on Shabbos for any Neder that the wife makes
(even a Neder that is not preventing enjoyment of Shabbos). The Ran explains
that the reason for this is because if one is not Mefer before the end of the
day, one will lose the chance to be Mefer. The Gemara adds that according to
the opinion that says that the husband has twenty-four hours to be Mefer the
Neder, he cannot be Mefer on Shabbos, but he must wait until after Shabbos to
be Mefer, since time is not pressing.
Hence, it is proper to call the Halachah that limits Hafarah to the day of
the Neder a "Kula," if he heard about the wife's Neder at the beginning of
Shabbos, since it permits the husband to be Mefer on Shabbos. He does not
need to wait until after Shabbos and be Mefer during the few remaining
minutes until the end of the 24 hour period. The "Chumra of the end of the
Mishnah is that when the wife is Noder towards the end of Shabbos, he must be
Mefer in the few remaining minutes until the end of the day. According to the
opinion that gives 24 hours, although he may not be Mefer during those few
minutes, he has plenty of time after Shabbos in which to be Mefer! (M.
Kornfeld -- it is not entirely clear why the Ran and others did not explain
in this manner. Perhaps they were trying to offer an explanation of the
Mishnah that would make it readable even according to the Gemara's original
assumption, that a husband may *not* be Mefer Nedarim that have nothing to do
with Shabbos [and that the word "she'Im" in the end of the Mishnah should be
interpreted, "v'Im" -- see Beitzah 7b.])
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