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Kidushin 51
KIDUSHIN 51-55 - Ari Kornfeld has generously sponsored the Dafyomi
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1) TWO THINGS THAT HAPPEN AT ONCE
(a) (Mishnah): A man was Mekadesh a woman and her daughter,
or 2 sisters, at the same moment - they are not
Mekudashos.
(b) There was a case of 5 women, 2 of whom were sisters. A
man collected a basket of dates from their field in
Shemitah, and said 'You are all Mekudashos to me with
these figs'; 1 of the women took them on behalf of all of
them. Chachamim ruled, the sisters are not Mekudashos.
(c) (Gemara) Question: From where do we know this?
(d) Answer #1 (Rami bar Chama): "Do not marry a woman in
addition to her sister to be a rival" - the Torah
teaches, if the Kidushin would make them rivals to each
other, neither is Mekudeshes.
(e) Question (Rava): If so, how do you understand "The souls
that do so will be cut off" - if neither is Mekudeshes,
no one is Chayav Kares!
(f) Answer #2 (Rava): Rather, the verse speaks when 1
received Kidushin after her sister; the reason for the
Mishnah is as Rabah.
1. (Rabah): Any 2 things, 1 of which cannot take effect
after the other, if done simultaneously, neither
takes effect.
2. Question (Abaye - Beraisa): One who separates too
much Ma'aser - his produce is permitted, but the
Ma'aser is messed up (some is really Chulin - if
Terumas Ma'aser is taken from the Ma'aser, perhaps
some is invalid!)
i. According to Rabah, we should say that since
one cannot take Ma'aser twice, taking extra
Ma'aser at once does nothing!
3. Answer (Rabah): Ma'aser is different, for it can be
taken halfway - he can make half of a fruit Ma'aser
(so when he takes too much, we consider that the
appropriate percentage of every fruit separated
becomes Ma'aser).
4. Question: But Ma'aser of animals cannot be taken
halfway, and it cannot be taken twice, but when 2
are taken at once, it takes effect!
i. (Rava): If 2 animals came out together as the
tenth (and eleventh) - one is Ma'aser, the
other is the eleventh (i.e. Chulin).
5. Answer: Ma'aser of animals is different, since it
can be taken twice through a mistake.
i. (Mishnah): If a man mistakenly called the ninth
'Tenth', he called the tenth 'Ninth', and
called the eleventh 'Tenth' - all 3 are Kadosh.
6. Question: (Breads of) the Todah (thanksgiving
offering) cannot be sanctified mistakenly, nor can
extra breads be sanctified - but if one tries this,
40 breads become sanctified!
i. (Chizkiyah): A Todah was slaughtered, intending
to sanctify 80 breads - 40 of them become
sanctified;
ii. (R. Yochanan): They are not sanctified.
iii. (R. Zeira): All agree, if he said '40 of the 80
breads should become Kedoshim' - all agree, 40
become Kedoshim;
iv. If he said '(Even) 40 should not become
Kedoshim unless all 80 become Kedoshim' - all
agree, none become Kedoshim;
v. They argue when he did not specify: Chizkiyah
holds, the extra breads are in case there is a
problem with the 40 (he only wants 40 to become
Kedoshim; R. Yochanan holds, he wants all 80 to
become Kedoshim.
(g) Question: Why did Rava say that the Mishnah is due to
Rabah's law - Rava himself holds, Kidushin in which it is
forbidden to have relations with her (Tosfos - the
Kidushin itself forbids her) is not Kidushin!
(h) Answer: He explained how Rami bar Chama should learn (who
holds that Kidushin not fit for relations is Kidushin).
2) KIDUSHIN NOT FIT FOR RELATIONS
(a) (Abaye): Kidushin in which it is forbidden to have
relations with her (Tosfos - the Kidushin itself forbids
her) is Kidushin;
(b) (Rava): It is not Kidushin.
1. (Bar Ahina): "When a man will take (Mekadesh) a
woman and have relations with her" - Kidushin must
be fit for relations.
(c) (Mishnah): A man was Mekadesh a woman and her daughter,
or 2 sisters, at the same moment - they are not
Mekudashos.
(d) Inference: If he was Mekadesh 1 of the 2 women (without
specifying which) - 1 would be Mekudeshes;
1. Question: Even though relations would be forbidden,
because we do not know which is Mekudeshes, the
Kidushin works - this refutes Rava!
2. Counter-question (Rava - Mishnah): There was a case
of 5 women, 2 of whom were sisters...Chachamim
ruled, the sisters are not Mekudashos.
3. Inference: The 3 strangers (unrelated women) are
Mekudashos.
4. Question: What is the case?
i. Suggestion: If he said 'All of you are
Mekudashos to me' - this is as a man that says
'Acquire, you and the donkey', which does not
work (since the donkey cannot acquire, neither
does the man; likewise, since both sisters
cannot become Mekudashos, neither do the
strangers)!
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5. Answer: Rather, he said 'One of you is Mekudeshes to
me', and the Mishnah says that neither sister is
(even doubtfully) Mekudeshes!
(e) Question: The beginning of the Mishnah is not as Rava,
the end of the Mishnah is not as Abaye!
(f) Answer #1 (for Abaye): The Mishnah says: A man was
Mekadesh a woman and her daughter, or 2 sisters, at the
same moment - they are not Mekudashos;
1. If he was Mekadesh 1 of the 2 women (without
specifying which) - 1 would be Mekudeshes;
2. If he said 'I Mekadesh whichever of you is fitting
to have relations with me', neither is Mekudeshes.
i. There was a case of 5 women, 2 of whom were
sisters... he said 'I Mekadesh whichever of you
is fitting to have relations with me' -
Chachamim ruled, the sisters are not
Mekudashos.
(g) Answer #2 (for Rava): The Mishnah says: A man was
Mekadesh a woman or her daughter, or 1 of 2 sisters,
without specifying which - this is as if he was Mekadesh
both at the same time, neither is Mekudeshes;
1. There was a case of 5 women, 2 of whom were
sisters... he said 'I Mekadesh all of you and 1 of
the sisters' - Chachamim ruled, the sisters are not
Mekudashos.
3) ATTEMPTED PROOFS FOR ABAYE
(a) (Beraisa): A man was Mekadesh his daughter to a man,
without specifying which daughter - his Bogeres daughters
are not even doubtfully Mekudashos.
1. Inference: His daughters that are minors (or
Na'aros) are (at least doubtfully) Mekudashos!
2. Question: Such a Kidushin forbids relations (any of
them may be the husband's wife's sister), yet it
takes effect - this refutes Rava!
3. Answer: The case is, there is only 1 Bogeres
daughter and 1 minor daughter.
4. Question: But it say, the Bogeros!
5. It means, whenever this happens, the Bogeres
daughter is not Mekudeshes at all.
6. Question: If there is only 1 minor daughter, of
course she is Mekudeshes!
7. Answer: The case is, the Bogeres made her father an
agent to Mekadesh her.
i. One might have thought, the father accepted
Kidushin for her - we hear, this is not so, he
rather accepted for his minor daughter, for
then he keeps the money.
8. Question: This answer does not work when the Bogeres
told her father that he can keep the money!
9. Answer: Still, he surely was Mekadesh his minor
daughter, for that is a Mitzvah incumbent on him
(being Mekadesh his Bogeres daughter is not
incumbent on him).
(b) (Mishnah - R. Meir): A man has 2 sets of daughters (i.e.
from 2 wives). He says, 'I was Mekadesh my big daughter,
but I don't know if it was the biggest of the older set,
or the biggest of the younger set, or the youngest of the
older set (who is older than all of the younger set) -
they are all doubtfully Mekudashos, except for his
youngest daughter of the younger set.
1. (Question: This refutes Rava!)
2. Answer: The case is, at the time of Kidushin he
specified which daughter; later, it was forgotten.
i. Support: The Mishnah says, 'I don't know', not
'it is not known'.
3. Question: If so, obviously these girls are
doubtfully Mekudashos!
4. Answer: One might have thought, R. Meir agrees with
R. Yosi, who says that a man does not enter doubtful
situations (so he surely was Mekadesh his oldest
daughter) - we hear, this is not so.
(c) Question (Mishnah): Reuven was Mekadesh 1 of 2 sisters,
he does not know which - he gives a Get to each (this
refutes Rava)!
1. Answer: The case is, at the time of Kidushin he
specified which sister; later, it was forgotten.
i. Support: The Mishnah says, 'I don't know', not
'it is not known'.
2. Question: If so, obviously they are doubtfully
Mekudashos!
3. Answer: The Chidush is in the end of the Mishnah.
4. (Mishnah): If Reuven died, leaving 1 brother - he
does Chalitzah to both women; if he left 2 brothers,
1 does Chalitzah, the other (may) do Yibum;
i. If both did Yibum, we allow them to stay
married.
ii. Lechatchilah, Chalitzah must be done before
Yibum - if a brother does Yibum first, if the
Yevamah he takes was not Mekudeshes to Reuven,
he now marries the sister of his Shomeres
Yavam!
(d) Question (Mishnah): Shimon and David were Mekadesh 2
sisters, neither knows which one - each man must give a
Get to each sister.
1. Answer: The case is, at the time of Kidushin they
knew which sister each was Mekadesh; later, it was
forgotten.
i. Support: The Mishnah says, 'neither knows', not
'it is not known'.
2. Question: If so, obviously they are doubtfully
Mekudashos!
3. Answer: The Chidush is in the end of the Mishnah.
4. (Mishnah): If both men died, each left 1 brother -
each brother does Chalitzah to both women;
5. If Shimon left 1 brother, and David left 2 brothers,
Shimon's brother does Chalitzah to both women; one
of David's brothers does Chalitzah, the other does
Yibum;
i. If Shimon's brother also did Yibum, we allow
both couples to stay married.
ii. Lechatchilah, Chalitzah must be done before
Yibum - if a brother does Yibum first, if the
Yevamah he takes was not Mekudeshes to his
brother, he now marries a Shomeres Yavam of
another man.
(e) Question (Beraisa): Reuven has 5 sons, David has 5
daughters. Reuven said, 'One of your daughters is
Mekudeshes to 1 of my sons' - each daughter needs a Get
from each son;
1. If a brother died, each daughter needs a Get from
each remaining brother, and 1 Chalitzah.
2. Suggestion: Perhaps here also, they knew at the time
of Kidushin, and forgot later.
3. Rejection: It says, 'One of your daughters is
Mekudeshes to 1 of my sons'!
4. Rava is refuted.
(f) In all arguments of Abaye and Rava, the law is as Rava,
except for 6 places; the initials of these places spell
'Ya'al Kagam'.
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