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Kesuvos, 60
1) "THOSE WHO WALK ON TWO LEGS"
QUESTION: The Gemara discusses the status of blood and milk of a human being
-- "Mehalchei Shtayim" ("those who walk on two [legs]") -- with regard to
whether one may eat or drink them. Why does the Beraisa refer to a person as
"Mehalchei Shtayim" in this instance, instead of simply calling him a
"person" ("Adam")? (TOSFOS YOM TOV, Bikurim 2:7)
ANSWERS:
(a) The TOSFOS YOM TOV (Bikurim 2:7) answers that the term "Adam" sometimes
refers only to a Jew. Hence, had the Gemara used the term "Adam" we might
have mistakenly thought that these laws apply only to the blood and milk of a
Jew. The Gemara uses the term "Mehalchei Shtayim" to make it clear that we
are referring to all persons. (The RISHON L'TZION asks that Tosfos points out
in many places that when the term "ha'Adam" (with the prefix "Ha") is used,
it includes all humans, both Jews and others; if so, the Beraisa could have
simply used the term "ha'Adam!")
(b) The TIFERES YISRAEL quotes RAV YAKOV EMDEN, who explains that the term
"Mehalchei Shtayim" was used in order to include in this category the "Adnei
ha'Sadeh" (a creature referred to in Kil'ayim 9) which also walks on two legs
like man, and which, according to some, is Metamei b'Ohel like man (see
Insights to Bechoros 8:1)
(c) The BEIS DAVID explains that since the Gemara discusses animals in the
same context here as it discusses man, it felt that it would be degrading to
use the term "Adam" (as if to say that "Adam" is just another species of
animal; in order to avoid referring to "Adam" when relating solely to the
animalistic, non-reasoning qualities of man, it used the term "Mehalchei
Shtayim").
2) PROHIBITING AN ACT BECAUSE OF "MAR'IS HA'AYIN" EVEN IN PRIVATE
QUESTION: The Gemara rules that if a gutter pipe on the roof of one's house
becomes clogged, causing water to flood the roof and drip into the house, a
person is permitted to kick away the debris, covertly ("b'Tzin'a," in
private), in order to unclog the pipe. It is not appropriate to do so
publicly, seemingly because those who might see him doing it might not
realize that he is doing it in order to clear out the pipe to prevent a loss,
and they will think that he is fixing his pipe on Shabbos which is Asur
(because of Metaken).
There is a general rule, put forth by Rav in Beitzah (9a), that "anything
that is prohibited by the Rabanan is prohibited even in the innermost
chambers." The Gemara's ruling here, though, seems to contradict that rule,
for it permits doing an Isur d'Rabanan in private! How can our Gemara be
reconciled with that rule?
ANSWERS:
(a) A number of Rishonim rule, based on this and similar statements in the
Gemara, that the Halachah does not follow Rav, and it is permitted to do
something that others will think is Asur (but which is really permitted) in
private but not in public. (RAV NISIM GAON, cited by Tosfos Avodah Zarah 12a
DH Kol Makom and by the Rosh in Shabbos 22:9, RABEINU EFRAIM, cited by the
Itur, Hilchos Yom Tov section 4, the BA'AL HA'ME'OR in Beitzah 4b and Shabbos
28b according to the pages of the Rif, the RA'AH, in Beitzah 9a)
The Rishonim prove that Rav's opinion is not accepted l'Halachah from the
Yerushalmi (Kil'ayim 9:1).
(b) Most Rishonim (RIF, Shabbos 146b, RAMBAM Hilchos Shabbos 22:20, Hilchos
Yom Tov 5:4, and others), though, rule in accordance with Rav's prohibition,
and they differentiate between the case of our Gemara and the cases to which
his rule applies. For example, the Gemara in Beitzah (9a) cites a Beraisa in
which the Tana Kama permits spreading out clothes to dry in the sun on
Shabbos when it is done in a private place. Spreading out clothes to dry in a
public area, though, is prohibited because of "Mar'is ha'Ayin," because
people will suspect that the person is not only drying his clothes on
Shabbos, but that he washed his clothes on Shabbos as well. Rebbi Elazar and
Rebbi Shimon prohibit spreading out one's clothes even in private, because
they hold that whenever there is a concern for Mar'is ha'Ayin, the act is
prohibited even in the innermost chambers of one's home.
1. TOSFOS here explains that in our Gemara, even if one is fixing his pipe in
a manner that is not prohibited, he is only transgressing an Isur d'Rabanan
by fixing it, since he is doing it in an unusual manner (with his foot).
Therefore, the Rabanan did not prohibit it when done in private. The case in
Beitzah, on the other hand, is where people will suspect that he did
something that is Asur *d'Oraisa*, and therefore the Rabanan prohibited it
even in the innermost chambers.
2. Others note that there is a basic difference between the problem of Mar'is
ha'Ayin in the case in Beitzah and the Mar'is ha'Ayin in the case of our
Gemara. In Beitzah, the person did not actually wash his clothes on Shabbos.
Rather, the concern is that people might mistakenly conclude that since he is
setting his clothes out to dry, he also washed them. In our Gemara, the
person actually *did* fix his pipe on Shabbos, an act that might have been
prohibited had he not done it to save himself from a significant loss, but
people might not realize that he is doing it to prevent damage to his house.
The prohibition not to do something that is Asur because of Mar'is ha'Ayin
even in one's most private room applies only to the former type of Mar'is
ha'Ayin -- where people think that a person is doing something other than
what he is actually doing. The reason for this difference is explained
differently by the Rishonim.
The RASHBA (Beitzah 9a) uses this observation to differentiate between two
types of Mar'is ha'Ayin. If a person is doing a permissible act, but people
who see think that it is a prohibited act, we allow it to be done in one's
innermost chambers. Cleaning out the pipe to prevent a deluge in the house
looks prohibited but is actually permitted. In contrast, if people who see
him will suspect him of doing something that is not permitted under any
circumstances, then the Rabanan are more stringent and prohibit the act even
in one's innermost chambers.
3. The RAN (Beitzah 9a) also differentiates between two types of Mar'is
ha'Ayin, but based on different reasoning. He says that when an act is
permitted by the Torah and the Rabanan prohibited it because others will
think that the person is doing something wrong, it becomes prohibited even in
one's innermost chambers. In the case of our Gemara, though, the opposite
logic applies. The act of cleaning a pipe is an act that is normally
*prohibited*. Here, the Rabanan are lenient and permit cleaning the pipe in
order to save the person's house and his enjoyment of Shabbos. In such a
case, it was necessary for the Rabanan to permit the act, but because of
"Mar'is ha'Ayin" they limited the permit to doing it in private. Prohibiting
it in all cases is not an option, because they saw a necessity to permit it.
HALACHAH: Rav's Halachah is cited by the SHULCHAN ARUCH (OC 301:45), based on
the rulings of the Rif, Rambam and others (opinion (b), above).
60b
3) WHEN MAY A NURSING MOTHER REMARRY
QUESTION: The Gemara says that Rav Nachman permitted women of the family of
the Reish Galusa (the exilarch) who were widowed or divorced to remarry while
they had a nursing baby on condition that they hired a nursemaid ("Menekes")
to nurse the child. For those women, Rav Nachman suspended the normal
prohibition that the Rabanan instituted prohibited a nursing woman to remarry
before twenty-four months pass from the time of the birth of the child. His
reasoning was that there was no fear that the baby would be left without a
nursemaid, for no nursemaid would quit her job if she was working for the
powerful family of the Reish Galusa.
The Gemara proves from a Beraisa that it is normally prohibited for a woman
to remarry within twenty-four months even if she gives her baby to a
nursemaid. The Beraisa discusses "Havchanah" -- the requirement for a woman
to wait three months before remarrying after a divorce or after the death of
her husband. The reason she may not remarry within three months is because
she might be pregnant and if she marries before three months have passed, it
will not be possible to determine the identity of the child's father -- the
first or second husband. However, the Beraisa says that even if the woman
clearly could not have children from the first husband (such as a woman whose
husband was out of town or in prison, or was old, or she was barren, etc.),
she still must wait three months before remarrying. From that Beraisa we see
that when the Rabanan enact a prohibition for a reason, the prohibition still
remains in force even in cases where the reason does not apply ("Lo Plug
Rabanan").
If the prohibition applies even where the reason does not apply, though, how
could Rav Nachman permit the women of the family of the Reish Galusa to
remarry within twenty-four months? Moreover, the Gemara says that a nursing
mother may not remarry within twenty-four months even if the child dies
within that time, because of the concern that a cruel mother might kill her
child in order to remarry right away. Why does the Gemara have to give a
reason to prohibit her from remarrying if her child dies? It should be
prohibited because of the "Lo Plug" element -- the prohibition applies even
when the reason does not apply, just like the prohibition applies even where
the woman gives her child to a nursemaid!
ANSWERS:
(a) TOSFOS explains that if a woman stops nursing because her baby died or
because she gave the baby to a nursemaid, the enactment that a nursing mother
may not marry within twenty-four months no longer applies to her. The only
reason the Rabanan prohibited such women from remarrying so soon in the case
where the baby died was because of a Gezeirah that a mother might kill her
baby; in the case where she gave the baby to a nursemaid, the prohibition of
remarrying is because of a Gezeirah that the nursemaid might give the baby
back to the mother. When a member of the family of the Reish Galusa gives a
baby to a nursemaid there is no such concern, and that is why the women of
the family of the Reish Galusa were permitted to remarry after giving the
child to a nursemaid.
The MAHARSHA points out that the answer of Tosfos is very difficult to
understand. If the concept of "Lo Plug" does not apply to a woman who gives
her baby to a nursemaid, then why does the Gemara prove from the fact that
the Rabanan prohibited a barren woman from remarrying within three months
after being divorced or widowed that it is prohibited for a nursing mother to
remarry within twenty-four months even when she gives the child to a
nursemaid? Tosfos says that we do *not* apply "Lo Plug" when a child is given
to a nursemaid! Moreover, why indeed does "Lo Plug" not apply when the child
is given to a nursemaid?
The RITVA and TOSFOS HA'ROSH explain the answer of Tosfos more clearly. They
say that "Lo Plug" does not apply when there is a *clearly recognizable
difference* between a specific case and a general case that is normally
prohibited. For example, when a child dies, it is clear to all that the child
is not alive and is not nursing, so "Lo Plug" does not apply. Therefore, the
mother may remarry right away. Similarly, if a woman from the family of the
Reish Galusa gives over her child to a nursemaid, everyone knows that the
nursemaid is afraid to break the agreement, and the baby is assuredly in good
hands. In contrast, when a woman from a normal family gives her baby to a
nursemaid to be nursed, she still may not remarry right away because the
nursemaid might go back on the deal.
When a woman who is not from the Reish Galusa's family gives her baby to a
nursemaid, and the nursemaid makes an *oath* that she will not break the
agreement -- may the woman remarry? Since she makes an oath, there is no
longer any concern that she will break the agreement, and therefore the
mother should be able to remarry! The Gemara says that in such a case, "Lo
Plug" *does* apply, and it proves this from the fact that it applies to the
requirement of Havchanah. The reason is because it is not clear and known to
all that the nursemaid made an oath not to break her agreement, and therefore
the mother may not remarry for twenty-four months.
(b) RASHI (DH b'Gezeirosav) does not seem to accept this reasoning. Rashi
writes that the rule of "Lo Plug" teaches us that a woman who gave birth may
not remarry for twenty-four months whether she is nursing the child or not.
It seems from Rashi that the "Lo Plug" here does not tell us not to
differentiate between a nursemaid who took an oath and a nursemaid who did
not take an oath. Rather, Rashi understands the Gemara in its simple sense,
that "Lo Plug" teaches us not to differentiate between a mother who is
nursing and a mother who is not nursing for whatever reason. Why, then,
should the women of the Reish Galusa's family be permitted to remarry right
away, and why should a woman whose child died be permitted to remarry (if not
for the concern that she might kill her child)?
The answer might be that according to Rashi, "Lo Plug" does not create a
blanket, all-encompassing prohibition. Rather, "Lo Plug" creates a
prohibition (where the reason for the prohibition does not apply) only in
cases where the cause for the original enactment is still applicable to at
least a minimal extent. Therefore, in order to prohibit a mother from
remarrying because of "Lo Plug," there must be some possibility that she will
need to continue nursing her child (or a similar concern, such as a concern
that she might kill the child). Since the women of the Reish Galusa's family
have absolutely no cause for concern, "Lo Plug" does not apply.
This explanation may be derived from the words of Rashi (DH Harei
she'Haysah). Rashi writes concerning all the women who are prohibited to
remarry because of Havchanah that "it is *not common* for them to become
pregnant," implying, however, that it is remotely possible (i.e. that a
Ketanah, or an elderly woman, or a woman whose husband is in prison, could
become pregnant from her husband). That is why the Rabanan prohibited her
immediate remarriage due to "Lo Plug." (In the case of an Akarah, a barren
woman, the Rabanan might have prohibited a woman from remarrying within three
months because of the concern that a healthy woman might make herself an
Akarah in order to remarry.
Accordingly, if a nursing mother gives her child to a nursemaid and the
nursemaid makes an oath that she will faithfully nurse the child, then
perhaps it is permitted for the mother to remarry within twenty-four months.
The RITVA indeed cites such an opinion. (M. Kornfeld)
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